Actress Anupama Parameswaran has opened up in regards to the bodily and emotional impression of what she described as “narcissistic abuse” throughout a two-year relationship with an actor.
What’s Occurring
Throughout a dialog on the I AM With Dhanya Varma present, the actor recalled experiencing a number of well being issues throughout the relationship, together with panic assaults, blackouts, extreme weight reduction and an eye fixed situation that ultimately required surgical procedure.
Anupama stated she had by no means confronted such issues earlier than and defined that the extended stress and anxiousness started affecting her bodily well being.
“I used to be a cheerful little one. I used to be a traditional little one. I’d simply chill in my life. None of this had occurred earlier than,” she stated.
She recalled experiencing frequent panic and anxiousness assaults that left her unable to regulate her physique. “Our legs would out of the blue begin to shiver, our fingers would begin shaking, and we could not even management it,” she stated. She additionally spoke about experiencing blackouts throughout that interval.
‘My Anxiousness Additionally Affected My Consuming Habits’
In keeping with Anupama, her anxiousness additionally affected her consuming habits. She stated conversations together with her ex-partner would usually set off her to such an extent that she would vomit after consuming. “No matter I ate, some dialog would occur, it will set off my anxiousness, and I’d throw up,” she stated.
The actor additionally revealed that the bodily adjustments grew to become noticeable to folks round her, notably her weight reduction. Nevertheless, she stated she was unable to clarify what she was going by means of publicly on the time.
Her well being points additionally started interfering together with her work. Anupama recalled that her proper eye would twitch uncontrollably whereas she was capturing, forcing the manufacturing to cease filming.
She stated, “My proper eye would begin glitching. It’s a must to cease capturing as a result of my eyes would begin glitching. You’ll be able to’t even cease it.”
“I Was Crying Each Single Night time”
She went on to explain what she stated was probably the most severe bodily penalties of that interval. In keeping with Anupama, her lacrimal gland, which produces tears, grew to become swollen and moved from its regular place after she spent lengthy durations crying.
She added, “I used to be crying each single evening for hours and hours, and I must stand up and go to the shoot,” she stated, including, “Rapidly, my lacrimal gland got here down until right here. It was swollen, and I needed to get surgical procedure executed.”
Anupama stated the situation was seen throughout the promotions of her movie Paradha. “In the event you see the promotions of Paradha, you’ll be able to see that one aspect of my eye was very swollen. The lacrimal gland itself had fallen down fully, after which they needed to sew it again,” she stated.
The actor additional revealed that the bodily impression went past the problems she mentioned intimately. “There are wounds in my physique, not by bodily abuse, indirectly by somebody punching, however wounds and points in my physique that may by no means be healed. Bodily and psychological ones, for no matter I went by means of.”
Anupama reiterated that she had not skilled these well being issues earlier than the connection. “Nothing of this kind had occurred earlier than. None of this,” she stated.
Anupama has not publicly recognized the actor she was referring to. She has beforehand been linked in studies to actor Dhruv Vikram, with whom she labored in Mari Selvaraj’s Bison Kaalamaadan (2025). Neither Anupama nor Dhruv has publicly confirmed or denied the reported relationship.
“I Was Ashamed That I Have Durations”
Talking on Dhyan Varma’s YouTube channel, Anupama bought emotional recalling how her former associate allegedly made her really feel ashamed of a number of points of herself, together with being an actor, being assured and having durations.
“I used to be in a state of affairs the place I used to be ashamed that I used to be an actor. I used to be ashamed that I used to be assured. I used to be ashamed that I’ve my durations and I am a girl,” she stated.
Explaining the impression the connection had on her, Anupama stated she as soon as dreamed of getting 11 youngsters however now not needs them. She recalled how her former associate would attribute disagreements to her menstrual cycle, no matter after they occurred.
“First day of the cycle, fifth day of the cycle, tenth day of the cycle, fifteenth day of the cycle, twentieth day, twenty-fifth day, any day of the cycle. You confront this particular person for a mistake he has made, they are going to say, oh, you are PMSing, your interval is but to come back. So, I used to be so ashamed,” she stated.
“I used to be somebody who dreamt of getting 11 youngsters. At this level, I do not even need youngsters. I felt so dangerous for being a girl. I felt so dangerous for all my achievements,” she added.
When Anupama Opened Up About Narcissistic Abuse
This isn’t the primary time Anupama has spoken about her expertise together with her former associate. In an earlier social media publish, she described the connection as “narcissistic abuse” and alleged that her associate step by step started controlling totally different points of her private {and professional} life.
Describing the connection as a cycle of maximum emotional highs and lows, she stated, “Many individuals aren’t conscious of narcissistic abuse. Someday he will probably be Remo. I will probably be showered with love and care and can probably really feel just like the luckiest particular person alive. Nevertheless, the following day he will probably be Anniyan. It will likely be probably the most brutal aspect, and he is not going to care a hoot about what is occurring round him.”
“The identical particular person will play Ambi the following day, apologising to me for his errors and crying like a child. He’ll promise to by no means repeat the errors, however then once more the love cycle continues,” she added.
Anupama Parameswaran And Dhruv Vikram’s Relationship Rumours
Though Anupama has not publicly recognized her former boyfriend, her statements have triggered hypothesis amongst followers about actor Dhruv Vikram. The 2 actors shared display house in Mari Selvaraj’s Bison Kaalamaadan, and courting rumours surrounding them gained momentum in 2025.
Followers had beforehand linked them after an unverified {photograph} and a shared Spotify playlist surfaced on-line. Their appearances at award capabilities additionally fuelled hypothesis about their relationship.
Anupama has, nevertheless, not confirmed that Dhruv was the particular person she referred to in her statements.
