Anupama Parameswaran, who spoke at size about being in a controlling relationship with an unnamed particular person for 2 years and the way she healed after strolling out of it, has made one other revelation. She mentioned the connection affected the way in which she considered herself, her profession and even her identification as a girl.
Talking on Dhyan Varma’s YouTube channel, Anupama obtained emotional recalling how her former accomplice allegedly made her really feel ashamed of a number of elements of herself, together with being an actor, being assured and having durations.
“I used to be in a scenario the place I used to be ashamed that I used to be an actor. I used to be ashamed that I used to be assured. I used to be ashamed that I’ve my durations and I am a girl,” she mentioned.
Explaining the affect the connection had on her, Anupama mentioned she as soon as dreamed of getting 11 youngsters however not needs them. She recalled how her former accomplice would attribute disagreements to her menstrual cycle, no matter once they occurred.
“First day of the cycle, fifth day of the cycle, tenth day of the cycle, fifteenth day of the cycle, twentieth day, twenty-fifth day, any day of the cycle. You confront this particular person for a mistake he has made, they may say, oh, you are PMSing, your interval is but to come back. So, I used to be so ashamed,” she mentioned.
“I used to be somebody who dreamt of getting 11 youngsters. At this level, I do not even need children. I felt so unhealthy for being a girl. I felt so unhealthy for all my achievements,” she added.
Anupama Beforehand Spoke About Narcissistic Abuse
This isn’t the primary time Anupama has spoken about her expertise along with her former accomplice. In an earlier social media submit, she described the connection as “narcissistic abuse” and alleged that her accomplice regularly started controlling completely different elements of her private {and professional} life.
Describing the connection as a cycle of maximum emotional highs and lows, she mentioned, “Many individuals should not conscious of narcissistic abuse. In the future he will probably be Remo. I will probably be showered with love and care and can probably really feel just like the luckiest particular person alive. Nonetheless, the subsequent day he will probably be Anniyan. It will likely be probably the most brutal facet, and he is not going to care a hoot about what is occurring round him.”
“The identical particular person will play Ambi the subsequent day, apologising to me for his errors and crying like a child. He’ll promise to by no means repeat the errors, however then once more the love cycle continues,” she added.
Anupama Parameswaran and Dhruv Vikram Relationship Rumours
Though Anupama has not publicly recognized her former boyfriend, her statements have triggered hypothesis amongst followers about actor Dhruv Vikram. The 2 actors shared the display house in Mari Selvaraj’s Bison Kaalamaadan, and courting rumours surrounding them gained momentum in 2025.
Followers had beforehand linked them after an unverified {photograph} and a shared Spotify playlist surfaced on-line. Their appearances at award capabilities additionally fuelled hypothesis about their relationship.
Anupama has, nevertheless, not confirmed that Dhruv was the particular person she referred to in her statements.