Anupama Parameswaran has been making headlines for being candid about her therapeutic journey after getting out of a controlling relationship. The actress, earlier rumoured to be in a relationship with Dhruv Vikram, has now addressed the “gold digger” label and shared how she saved suspending her engagement.
In an interview with Dhanya Varma, Anupama revealed that inside three months of relationship, her associate began speaking about their engagement. The actress felt it was too early. “I used to be the one who continually delayed that engagement as a result of I knew this wasn’t love. It was simply desperation to get me to stop appearing.”
She continued, “To those that name me a gold digger, if I hadn’t rejected that engagement proposal, I’d have married that individual, and it might have in the end led to divorce.” She additionally revealed that each time her associate’s household requested about engagement, she used to keep away from it. “Every time they requested, I’d say, ‘I really feel that the individual could be very younger; we’d like just a little extra time; this isn’t the appropriate time.’ As for having youngsters, we may take into account egg freezing. On this relationship, I postponed the engagement a number of instances,” Anupama shared.
She opened up in regards to the poisonous nature of the connection and shared that her ex-boyfriend began to regulate every facet of her skilled in addition to private life. Calling it “narcissistic abuse”, the actress famous that the person started altering her drastically with out her even noticing it.
“Many individuals will not be conscious of narcissistic abuse. At some point he shall be Remo. I shall be showered with love and care and can presumably really feel just like the luckiest individual alive. Nonetheless, the following day he shall be Anniyan. Will probably be probably the most brutal facet, and he won’t care a hoot about what is occurring round him.
“The identical individual will play Ambi the following day, apologising to me for his errors and crying like a child. He’ll promise to by no means repeat the errors, however then once more the love cycle continues,” she added.
Beforehand, Anupama has additionally been vocal about being in a controlling relationship and therapeutic from it. Though she didn’t take the title of her ex-partners, many believed that it was Dhruv Vikram, as the 2 sparked relationship rumours again in 2025.
