Actor Anupama Parameswaran has caught the eye of many on social media along with her detailed dialog about her previous relationship, which she termed as ‘narcissistic abuse.’ Though she didn’t identify the person, many rapidly assumed it was Dhruv Vikram, her Bison Kaalamaadan co-star. Within the second a part of the dialog with Dhanya Varma that has now been launched, Anupama detailed the intense toll this relationship took on her well being.
‘I’d throw up and I’d not eat something’
Anupama went on to share that there was by no means a interval of normalcy within the relationship; it was both excessive highs or excessive lows. She mentioned, “There have been instances when this individual would say, ‘Let’s finish this,’ and two days later he would say, ‘I am unable to stay with out you, child!’ Then there could be a patch-up. When all this abuse was taking place, I used to be going by my very own battles in my life. If you find yourself going by excessive anxiousness, it impacts you bodily. Panic assaults, anxiousness assaults, sure, blackouts, I used to be shedding numerous weight… I had none of this; I used to be a contented and regular youngster. My proper eye even began twitching, and we needed to cease taking pictures… it was such a situation. Some dialog would occur, and I’d throw up, and I’d not eat something. I misplaced a lot weight. I used to be crying each single night time for hours and hours, and I must stand up and go for a shoot. Abruptly my lacrimal gland, it obtained swollen and I needed to get surgical procedure accomplished… There was much more.”
‘I advised this individual that you’re actually affecting my peace’
She added, “There are wounds in my physique, not bodily abuse, and points in my physique that may by no means be healed- bodily and psychological. Folks requested me why could not I get out of it, however nobody understands that it was like a spider net. It’s like textbook, the explanations, the gaslighting, the manipulation; it’s the similar. There was some extent to start with of the 12 months the place I advised this individual that you’re actually affecting my peace and we won’t do that anymore… and slowly I begin seeing by this individual… catching their lies, confronting them. Slowly, they attempt to make me the issue.”
Anupama mentioned that this stored taking place, and abruptly she noticed one thing weird, after which one thing erupted. Each their households had been concerned, and your entire bubble broke. After a couple of days she wanted to threaten that individual for him to even speak to her. “As a result of they by no means take accountability for something they do. I had a dialog, and within the final 10 seconds, once I noticed him, I may see the masks peeling off, and I may see the demon,” she shared.
Anupama didn’t identify anybody since she obtained candid on social media in July about going by a breakup. In early 2025, Anupama and Dhruv Vikram sparked rumours that they had been relationship when followers unearthed an unverified image of them kissing, which they claimed was the show image for his or her shared Spotify playlist.
